Via theΒ thedailyseyi.com:
We need to talk about this ideology that working a 9 to 5 is a bad thing. That everyone needs to be an entrepreneur. That if you work for someone/corporation, youβre not living your best life or being the bestΒ version of you.
STOP WITH THAT RHETORIC!
Look, not everyone is meant to be a business owner. Think about it. If every single human being on this planet decided to stop working for someone, nothing would get done. AT ALL. You would be a one man/woman show, burn out, and wish that you could go back to a simpler time when you worked for someone.
I am seriously sick and tired of hearing people tell others that they need to quit their job and pursue their dreams. Ok, I get it. We all have additional dreams outside of traditional career paths, but does one ever stop to think that maybe that personβs career path is their dream. Or that it is ve
ry much possible to work traditional hours and still cater to your other hustle?? That you can have TWO DREAMS??? Who wouldβve thunk it! The two are not mutually exclusive. I do it. I work from 10-6, or 7pm, or 8pm, depending on the day. I still make sure that I carve out time for blogging.
YOU CAN HAVE BOTH! YOU CAN DO BOTH!
I swear everyday I see some thread about why itβs important to make sure that you arenβt investing your energy into your day job and putting all that energy into your side hustle. Now, letβs stop and think that maybe this job is here to:
1) Discipline You: how are you going to work for yourself if you canβt even stay diligent in waking up at a set time everyday and going to work. Working a βtraditionalβ job gives you some serious skills that helps you tackle situations outside of work. It also informs you about what type of worker you are. Do you work better in a team or solo? Are you someone that likes to do multiple things at once, or do one task at a time? Having this knowledge about your own work ethic can help in your path
2) Teach You about Being a Follower: no one wants to be a follower these days. Itβs taboo. Why be a follower when you can be the leader? Why be the tail when you can be the head? If you are so quick to wanting to be the leader, then you are not meant to a leader. Sorry. And thatβs something I had to learn for myself too. I always wanted to be the one to lead something, and when I didnβt get the opportunity, I would be BIG mad. Now I am grateful for those missed chances. Because ya girl was NOT ready. All those times I had to follow (and still following to this day), has shown me that there are some leadership qualities that I was lacking at the time. If you are not able to understand what itβs like to follow, when you do finally have your own business and get employees, youβre not going to understand how to empathize and work with them.
3) Keep You Focused:Β Be honest with yourself. If youβre the type of person that tends to get distracted very easily, then having a structured job is NECESSARY AF. You canβt be out here owning a business and donβt even know how to keep a decent schedule.
4) Test You:Β How do you handle the small things? How do you handle criticism from a superior? What is your work ethic like? This is something Iβve also had to internally process. I will be the first to admit, I donβt like hearing criticism. I donβt care how productive it is, I donβt want to hear it. But I NEED TO HEAR IT! I need to know the areas where I can improve, and then actually improve on those areas. How am I going to handle owning a business (and failing in some aspects), if I am unable to handle failing in something much smaller, now.
I am 1000% sure that every business owner out there will tell you that itβs not for the faint of heart, and that their past jobs shaped them into the owner they are today. Stop looking at your 9 to 5 as a drag. Be grateful that you have a job to go to. Again, something I have to remind myself daily. BE GRATEFUL. When you start thinking of it as something to better you rather than drag you down, youβll start to approach your days a bit more differently.
I personally donβt tell like telling people to just up and quit their job because I donβt know their situation. I know my situation very well and know that right now, thatβs a luxury I simply cannot afford. If it is something you can actually afford, then by all means, do the damn thing. But donβt feel ashamed that you have to go to work everyday.
Lastly, your current job isnβt holding you back. It really isnβt. If you truly want something, you will make time for it. I enjoy blogging. I enjoy creating content. So when I have free time, I do just that. My day job allows me to fund this passion until it gets to a point that it starts funding itself. Now this is not a ding to those who currently work for themselves. Not at all. This is also not saying that you should stay in a job that makes you unhappy. This is just a reminder that everyoneβs path is not the same. The way you did something is not one cookie cutter example for the rest of us. So stop perpetuating this idea that having a day career is hurtful to your βdreamβ. You can cultivate your other passion while simultaneously doing a job well done in your career.
Yes you can!
Until next timeβ¦
Seyi is a Nigerian-American style and lifestyleΒ blogger currently residing in her hometown of Los Angeles. She earned her MBA (Masters of Business Administration) in May 2016 from the American University at Washington, D.C. Before moving to D.C. for school, she worked in the advertising media world. She hopes to combine her marketing backgroundΒ along with her business knowledgeΒ to making a statement in the blogging and fashion industries.